so...somehow I wanted to use stock ubuntu theming, but even though they improved the theme a lot in karmic some things just were to bold for me...
so here is a "fixed" compact version of Human
Changes for the GTK theme:
- compact Menu and icons set to 16pixel size
- thiner scrollbar
- a little less contrast
- gradients look a bit smoother
Changes for metacity:
- desaturated borders and highlights
- fixed bottom corners looking jagged with compiz on
- less contrast
- adjusted height to look better with smaller title font
...to me this is way more usable, but I guess the design team designed that for the "average" user to which it probably isn't more usable...